Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Surprises

I got three surprises today:

(WARNING... this started off as a quicky post, but turned out rather journalistic. I think these are amusing facts, but I'm not offended if you choose to skip over the details. :-)

Surprise #1
. Two bottom teeth poking through on this guy....


I had no idea! Today I happened to catch a glimpse of something white in his mouth and sure enough, there were two little nubbins sticking out of his gums. Logan didn't have teeth until at least 7 months, so I wasn't suspecting anything yet!



Surprise #2
. Logan can now, finally, tell me in advance (even though it is a short advance) that he has to throw up.


How do I know? Because today he projectile vomited in the Costco food court during lunch rush.

We had just sat down to eat our pizza and polish sausage. I took one bite and Logan wouldn't take a bite. Finally I coerced him into taking one bite and then he started crying and told me he had to throw up. Panic! In about a three second time span I had the following thoughts... "what do I have that would catch barf? I could move the pizza to the polish sausage wrapper and use the plate... but that wouldn't catch anything. I could use my cup - oh wait it's full of lemonade. Maybe I could take him to the garbage...." thoughts interrupted by major throw up coming out of Logan all over the floor under the table and simultaneous gasps from the crowds around me.

Then I try to figure out what to do next. Terrified that more is about to come up, I forcefully ask the lady next to me to watch my baby while I rush my screaming child back to the food counter. Cutting in front of 10 hungry people, I approach the happy Costco food guy I had been joking with 5 minutes earlier. I hear him start to say, "Oh it's you again..." but stops mid sentence as I avoid formalities and reach right in past the glass barrier and help myself to an empty cup, (I think adrenaline makes one forget their manners... :-) While my grubby, un-sanitized hand is reaching in his direction I loudly explain, "he's about to throw up!" I can still see the disgusted look of horror on his face.

The moments after that are all blurry... all I remember is my hands were shaking out of embarrassment; I tried to apologize to the nice, unfortunate people sitting next to us; I tried to figure our what to do with my hardly-eaten food while making sure Logan wasn't throwing up on my just-barely-purchased coat; and I remember standing there next to the chunky puddle, avoiding eye contact with everyone, waiting for the poor teenage maintenance worker who showed up with a mop bucket. I feebly apologized, offered to help then thanked him for cleaning up our mess.

At least it didn't get on anyone. At least it didn't get on him. At least it wasn't in the car! At least Logan can tell me now when he has to throw up, right? That's the silver lining. :-)


Surprise #3
. I got my second official invitation to a Primary child's baptism!

Ok so I know this is weird, and really not important in the grand scheme of things. But it actually really means a lot to me!

Since I've been in the Primary the past 3 years, I've been at every baptism because baptisms fall under one of my responsibilities, and because I love seeing the kids be baptized - so sweet. Well I think all the kids and their families just expect that a Primary leader will be there at their baptism, I help plan the program anyway and most of the children probably don't even bother giving out formal invites to their baptism, so I usually don't get an invitation to attend. Which I'm totally not offended by. I don't expect it.

Well, there is a little boy who began coming to Primary with his friend about a year ago. He is so sweet, always smiling, and so excited to learn the gospel. Since February, he has known the exact date of his baptism. His family was baptized in April and I can't express the pure joy I feel for this boy and his family and their conversion. I have been looking forward to this baptism all year.

Well, tonight he hand-delivered an official invitation to his baptism. This gave me warm fuzzies. This invitation means that he knows who I am! I'm not just some weird lady standing at the front of the primary room talking every Sunday. Sometimes I wonder if that's all the kids think.

Let me clarify, I don't really care that people know who I am. That's not my point. My point is that I try
hard to know and serve my Primary kids and be involved in their lives outside of Primary and try to know their families. So when I hear them say my name and when I get an invitation to their baptism, this means I've succeeded and that they know I care about and love them enough to attend something so meaningful to them. My goal is for them to know that there is at least one person who loves them in Primary. So tonight I feel like I have succeeded at least a little bit.

7 comments:

Stephanie Salmon said...

I love the journaly posts. That story at Costco sounds so horrible!! Way to find the silver lining though. Crazy that Lincoln got his teeth! He and Mckinley are both early I guess. She just bit me for the first time yesterday. O.U.C.H. And about the primary stuff, you are such a good example of really fulfilling your calling. You make me feel like a loser. :) So good to see you last week, we'll get together again soon. I'll plan it. :)

Tamara said...

First of all I LOVE that pic of Lincoln - so cute! Second, I am so sorry for you and the teenage costco kid, how horrible. I admire you finding the silver lining. :)

Nycole said...

Oh my goodness! I can't believe what happened to you at Costco. You handled it so well, I probably would have been crying! I am sure those primary children just love you! I bet you are such an awesome leader.

Lee and Sharon said...

Why is it your life is so overflowing with blessings.
I love reading your posts Kris.

Kaye said...

Every time I read your posts I think of what a good mother you are. You're a natural with the "run for the cup for throw up" instincts and all. And besides, you gave people a story to talk about later ... "we were in Costco today and this little boy ..." and the good part is you will probably never see those people again. Love ya.

Erin McSpadden said...

You rock sis! I love reading your blog, i can just hear you saying all that you write. it makes me smile!

Maegan said...

i think you are the best mom in the world finding the silver lining in that incident! i wish i'd been there with you to help and watch linco while you tried to help logan. poor loggie did not feel good. was he sick for the rest of the day or did something just not sit right and when he threw up he was fine? your blog is the best!